The Three Aspects of Aware Parenting
by Aletha Solter, Ph.D.
See also The four basic assumptions of Aware Parenting
See also The ten principles of Aware Parenting
Click here for a two-page printable summary of the Aware Parenting philosophy
(the three aspects and the ten principles)
Attachment-style parenting
- Natural childbirth and early bonding
- Plenty of physical contact
- Prolonged breast-feeding
- Prompt responsiveness to crying
- Sensitive attunement
Non-punitive discipline
- No punishments of any kind (including spanking, "time-out", and artificial "consequences")
- No rewards or bribes
- A search for underlying needs and feelings
- Anger management for parents
- Peaceful conflict-resolution (family meetings, mediation, etc.)
Healing from stress and trauma
- Recognition of stress and trauma (including unmet needs) as primary causes of behavioral and emotional problems
- Emphasis on prevention of stress and trauma
- Recognition of the healing effects of play, laughter, and crying in the context of a loving parent/child relationship
- Respectful, empathic listening and acceptance of children's emotions
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